Your first date is something that you will remember forever, for it is very special and has a different feel to it. Just before you start prepping up for this date and get busy deciding your clothes and shoes, you need to prepare yourself mentally. Your first formal date and the two of you sit for some wine and dinner in a beautiful and warm ambiance, but wait, you need to keep a check on what you speak.
Some questions can turn out to be big blunders and spoil your date like anything. We got in conversation with some people and they shared questions that they definitely won’t like to be asked on the first date. Are you all reading?
- Do you still talk to your ex?
Never talk about the exes. Past is past. Don’t spoil your date by taking your partner back to their past. It is best to talk about something that interests you both.
- What are your marriage plans?
Don’t straight away take it to marriage. You may like each other very strongly and may have thought of your future together but it is never a good idea to talk about such plans on your first date.
- How much do you earn?
You are on your first date and this is definitely not the right question to ask your partner. This is a very sensitive topic to touch on the first date. The other person may not feel comfortable in sharing it with you.
- Do you love me?
Okay, so you both like each other but the first date is not when you ask questions like these. It takes time to reach a level when you both feel that you are in love with each other. It will be too early to ask this.
- When was the last time you had sex?
Again, you can’t ask this question. Even if you have no clue about the physical relationships of your partner, this is not the right time to ask them. They may not like to share it with you.
- How do I look?
Usually women have a habit of asking people around them if they are looking good or not but when on your first date, please don’t ask this from your partner. They may find it weird. If there is something negative, they may hesitate in sharing their views.
- Can I kiss you?
NO, this one can turn out to be a big blunder. Control your feelings and keep them to yourself, for god’s sake! Next time, maybe J