Sex is one of those topics that are considered a taboo to be discussed in public. It is undoubtedly an intimate affair and requires both physical as well as emotional attraction. That’s why we have made a collection of 4 topics about sex that should be discussed with your partner now.
Fantasies and fetishes
He likes to be whipped and tied up, but you are more of a vice versa or a vanilla lover? Isn’t it better to be aware of these things in advance so that you’re not shocked or put off later? When you talk to your partner about your sexual fantasies and desires, the chances of those fantasies coming true increases and you tend to become more adventurous in bed.
Sexual history and secrets
It’s in the best interest of you and your partner to divulge this info if you have had a bad case of herpes a few months ago. Things like medical history, sexual disorders, STDs, etc. are topics that shouldn’t be avoided. Don’t narrate all your past sex experience to your partner but talking about the important bits is a good idea to be open to them.
If you’re exclusive or not
Let there be no doubt in your mind about the exclusivity of your relationship. This is the only thing which helps avoid heartbreak in the future. Talk to your partner whether you’re both in it for the whole deal and that you’re on the same page about being exclusive.
Needs and desires
Nobody is a mind reader. For an enjoyable sex life, both partners need to know about each other needs and desires. And this can be possible only through talk. Don’t shy from your partner, open up and talk about your likes and dislikes in bed. Discuss what experiments you’d like to do under the sheets to keep the spark alive.