In the regularly tumultuous world of social media, Bollywood director and producer Karan Johar has lately located himself at the receiving end of a troll’s insensitive remarks. The comment counselled that he bring a ‘bahu’ (daughter-in-law) home as a means of ‘time bypass’ for his mom, Hiroo Johar.
Challenging Stereotypes Surrounding ‘Bahu’
In addition,trollar said “Bahu Iaa do maa ko time pass nahi hota hoga”.Recognised for his resilience, Karan took a decisive stand against regressive stereotypes associated with the term ‘bahu.’. He delivered a powerful message, stressing that one should never reduce a daughter-in-law to a mere ‘time pass’ and he said, “Of all the unbelievable trolls, the abuse and judgement I get about my life choices and my way of being I find comments like these the most offensive …. Firstly no “bahu” should be a time pass for anyone’s mother … a bahu is a label which comes with ridiculous regressive baggage… she is an individual in her own right and can pass her time how she likes personally and professionally.”
A Glimpse into Family Dynamics and Co-Parenting
The filmmaker furnished a heartfelt glimpse into his family dynamics, revealing that his mother actively co-parents his kids, Roohi and Yash Johar. This disclosure not only highlighted the robust bond in the family but also dispelled the belief that his mom’s existence lacks success without the presence of a ‘bahu.’ Karan’s openness to their co-parenting arrangement showcased a contemporary approach to familial relationships.
Clarity on Marriage and Personal Fulfilment
Karan made it clear that his mother’s life is already complete with the affection they proportion. In addition, he firmly rejected the concept that bringing in a ‘balm’ in the form of a daughter-in-law is essential for her fulfilment. Instead, he expressed that any decision to get married could be driven by a private preference to fill his very own void and no longer conform to societal expectations.
In the end, Karan Johar’s reaction not only closed down baseless assumptions but additionally sparked a conversation about societal expectations and the need to redefine conventional roles and his message resonates beyond the world of Bollywood, encouraging a shift towards individuality and understanding within familial relationships.